Seduction – What Is Your Brand of Charismatic Smolder?

What makes a woman irresistible? What made the the insecure small-town girl, Marilyn Monroe-the sex symbol of our time, so irresistible? Or the not all that gorgeous Cleopatra, conqueror of mighty men, so compelling.

It was their own special brand of overpowering charisma that made them so alluring to men. Every women have their own personal brand of alluring charisma embroidered in their mental and physical beings.. Find out which of these most closely resembles your own and magnify it. For fun you could also try out other brands of charisma add some playful fun to your own feminine powers. So lets find out…

What’s is Your Brand of Charismatic Smolder?

Kittenish

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With this style you can focus on your soft pouty lips and touchable skin. Wear pastel shades of pink, peach and beige. Read lots of romance novels and lower your head in a shy Princess Di way as you whisper to your man. Cultivate your modest but yearn to be ravished look.

Exotic

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Dramatize your already vivid features. Wear bright, bold colors and jangling jewelry. Read the Kama Sutra and surprise your man with a Tantric massage. Take rituals baths. Light musky candles and wear musky perfume. Sway your hips like a belly dancer and spread your spicy intensity through life.

Elegant

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Exuding refinement and a sense of rich luxury offer up your long elegant neck to your lovers kiss. Wear classic ensembles and simple hairstyles. Prance around in flowing lingerie. Admire classic Georgia O’Keeffe paintings. Glide your fingers over his skin and send him to sensual heaven.

Sporty

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Flaunt your athletic body and sinewy muscles. Wear sporty leggings, perfectly fitted jeans or sexy tops that accentuate your athleticism. Be a sexual athlete in bed and ignite your erotic imagination. Make him laugh and challenge him to a game of strip billiards. Radiate vibrant health an irresistible joy of life.

Fiery

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Accentuate your eyes which burns with an internal flame. Wear slinky outfits and bold jewelry. Shake your hips or join a salsa club. Growl, pant and claw like a tigress in the bedroom. “Be so passionate about life that your inner fire sends sparks across any room”

Smart

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Don’t be afraid to let intelligence and depth shine through your eyes. Dress with taste and style and the occasional item that has an interesting story behind it. Develop a vast vocabulary of steamy language. Introduce your man to a sensual piece of art or music and tell him something fascinating about himself. Project a sense of mystery, depth and worldliness.

Earthy

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Play up your voluptuous figure and womanly walk. Wear a low cut gown with heels or go barefoot. Lick food from your fingers and let wine drizzle down your chin into your cleavage. Give your man plenty of smoldering glances and husky-voiced promises. Tease him with your hot touch. Be shamelessly lusty

Wild Woman

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Wield your outrageousness like an electrifying weapon. Wear leather, over the top frills, garter belts and wild hairdos. Make erotic videos, and randy overtures in semi public places. Promise to tie hi up and bite his ear playfully. Ooze unpredictable edginess and a sense of delicious danger.

 

Resources

302 Advanced Techniques for driving a man wild in bed by Olivia St. Claire

DIY Lace Choker

Over the past few months I’ve seen increasingly more and more chokers. I remember when I was around 13 years old, chokers were quite a thing. We all had them. They were made from plastic and probably not really fit for a 13 year old. I remember that Pamela Anderson had a barb wire tattoo on her arm in her movie Barb Wire and then we got all those barb wire inspired chokers. It seems however that the choker has returned and I like it. I’ve seen a lot of really pretty ones but since I love lace, I’ve decided to make a lace choker.

What you’ll need.

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  1. Measuring band
  2. Lace ribbon
  3. Snap buttons (2)
  4. A needle and thread.
  5. A charm ( if you want)

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Instructions

Measure around your neck. Be sure to measure an extra 3/4 inch (2 cm).Cut your ribbon according to the measurement. Fold the 2 sides of the ribbon in. Only about 1 cm each. Sew the sides separately.

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Sew on the snap buttons on either side of the ribbon.

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Button the ribbon and fold it in 2. Check where the middle is and sew your charm on… and viola, you’ve got a choker.

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I’ve also made a little ribbon with the rest of the lace that I could slip on to a bobby pin for my hair

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I hope you like these and try your own designs 🙂

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My frustration with so-called fashion bloggers.

I understand the fact that everyone, eventually, wants to make some money out of their blogs. But that doesn’t mean that you should only try and link things from the affiliate programs that you are part of.

I recently saw a gorgeous dress on Pinterest. I clicked on the link and it took me to the Asos website. Stupidly, I bought the dress without properly checking that it is the same dress because I was sooooo excited to get this lovely dress. It was only when I opened the package that I realized that this was not the dress I wanted. It was however, the dress I ordered.

The Dress I saw…

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The dress I got…

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I realize that it’s my own fault for not looking at the details, but at that moment it looked like the same dress. I am just annoyed that someone would link something totally unrelated and say that this is what they bought from a particular shop. This is just one example. The other day I also saw a blogger wearing a lovely jersey but none of the products that she linked was the jersey she was wearing.

So please don’t just link stuff to get sales. There is a reason we follow these bloggers and it’s because they have great style and typically, if we like something that they are wearing we would like to buy the SAME thing. Not something similar….

Here is what the dress looks like.

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Work wear for English Teachers (Korea)

Mint Dress

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Denim

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Black & white

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Flat shoes are always the best option when you’re standing on your feet the whole day.

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Histrionic Style

Our personality styles are expressed through our dress. In psychology we can refer to a number of personality disorder whereof Histrionic is one.

Histrionic is also referred to as the Drama Queen. Although all people on earth posses a degree of the traits associated with Histrionic personality disorder, the severity and amount of traits might earn you a diagnoses of histrionic personality disorder. This blog post however isn’t about the diagnoses of this personality disorder but rather the type of fashion style that will go along with these personality traits.

Histrionic traits include; being the centre of attention, provocative behaviour ( often in inappropriate situations), loves excitement, wears conversation starter. All aspects of her dress and make-up will be attention seeking.

Here are some examples of what a histrionic would wear.

A Floral Crown

Ombre coloured hair

 

Lots of accessories

 

Bright colours

 

Figure hugging outfits

High heels

We all know a histrionic friend. She might have coloured hair or always dress for attention. Or you might be histrionic yourself. We all want a little attention from time to time… Don’t you?

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