Seduction – What Is Your Brand of Charismatic Smolder?

What makes a woman irresistible? What made the the insecure small-town girl, Marilyn Monroe-the sex symbol of our time, so irresistible? Or the not all that gorgeous Cleopatra, conqueror of mighty men, so compelling.

It was their own special brand of overpowering charisma that made them so alluring to men. Every women have their own personal brand of alluring charisma embroidered in their mental and physical beings.. Find out which of these most closely resembles your own and magnify it. For fun you could also try out other brands of charisma add some playful fun to your own feminine powers. So lets find out…

What’s is Your Brand of Charismatic Smolder?

Kittenish

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With this style you can focus on your soft pouty lips and touchable skin. Wear pastel shades of pink, peach and beige. Read lots of romance novels and lower your head in a shy Princess Di way as you whisper to your man. Cultivate your modest but yearn to be ravished look.

Exotic

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Dramatize your already vivid features. Wear bright, bold colors and jangling jewelry. Read the Kama Sutra and surprise your man with a Tantric massage. Take rituals baths. Light musky candles and wear musky perfume. Sway your hips like a belly dancer and spread your spicy intensity through life.

Elegant

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Exuding refinement and a sense of rich luxury offer up your long elegant neck to your lovers kiss. Wear classic ensembles and simple hairstyles. Prance around in flowing lingerie. Admire classic Georgia O’Keeffe paintings. Glide your fingers over his skin and send him to sensual heaven.

Sporty

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Flaunt your athletic body and sinewy muscles. Wear sporty leggings, perfectly fitted jeans or sexy tops that accentuate your athleticism. Be a sexual athlete in bed and ignite your erotic imagination. Make him laugh and challenge him to a game of strip billiards. Radiate vibrant health an irresistible joy of life.

Fiery

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Accentuate your eyes which burns with an internal flame. Wear slinky outfits and bold jewelry. Shake your hips or join a salsa club. Growl, pant and claw like a tigress in the bedroom. “Be so passionate about life that your inner fire sends sparks across any room”

Smart

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Don’t be afraid to let intelligence and depth shine through your eyes. Dress with taste and style and the occasional item that has an interesting story behind it. Develop a vast vocabulary of steamy language. Introduce your man to a sensual piece of art or music and tell him something fascinating about himself. Project a sense of mystery, depth and worldliness.

Earthy

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Play up your voluptuous figure and womanly walk. Wear a low cut gown with heels or go barefoot. Lick food from your fingers and let wine drizzle down your chin into your cleavage. Give your man plenty of smoldering glances and husky-voiced promises. Tease him with your hot touch. Be shamelessly lusty

Wild Woman

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Wield your outrageousness like an electrifying weapon. Wear leather, over the top frills, garter belts and wild hairdos. Make erotic videos, and randy overtures in semi public places. Promise to tie hi up and bite his ear playfully. Ooze unpredictable edginess and a sense of delicious danger.

 

Resources

302 Advanced Techniques for driving a man wild in bed by Olivia St. Claire

Seduction – The Art of Skirt Lifting

An ancient gesture of female power, the uncovering of a creamy thigh, plump bottom or dark, mysterious vee has been a staple of seduction for thousands of years” Olivia St Claire.

For centuries women have been using what’s under their clothes to seduce even the most powerful of men. Aphrodite let her drapes fall just enough to expose her plump bottom, similarly Cancan dancers lift their skirts to give their admirers a glimpse of what lithes beneath. In modern days the skirt is still used as a powerful tool of seduction.

The attitude

Remember that men have lost fortunes and empires for what you have underneath your skirt. You’ve got it, they want it. And remember, reveal but conceal!

The skirt

The ideal skirt for skirt lifting is something short and flirty but not something that’s too tight, something wispy that sways when you walk, or long and bellowing that might accidentally reveal some of the secrets hidden underneath. You want something that is flattering and comfortable to avoid looking trampy

Underwear

In order to reveal your holy grail make sure what you have to show is worth seeing. It wouldn’t be alluring if you were wearing grandma panties or your oldest knickers with faded out patterns. Wear something that makes you feel sexy, lace, silk, thigh high stockings with a sexy lace trim or garter or absolutely nothing.

The styles

The hitchhiker

Female hitchhikers around the world has used this to get a ride for ages. Scrunch up your skirt to reveal a thigh, with you toe pointed of course :D.

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The Sharon Stone Cross

In basic instinct Sharon Stone sits with her legs crossed. She uncrosses and crosses her legs to reveal her deep dark cave, if only for a moment.

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The Aphrodite Drop

Aphrodite seduces by slowly drops her drapes from her shoulder to reveal her bottom. Look over your shoulder for to look at your fanny and then at him. Or drop it in one fell swoop.

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The Lolita

Bend over with a short skirt to reveal just enough to still remain a lady.

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The Gypsy

Raise a full long skirt high up both your thighs but leave the middle part draping down. Point one toe, cock your hip and look sultry.

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The Monroe Butterfly

Marilyn Monroe stands feet astride on top of a subway grating letting the wind blow up her skirt. Wait for a strong breeze or twirl around to create a similar effect. Remember to look innocent while doing this

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The accidental flash

This one usually happens whether we intend it or not. Most often when sitting down while wearing a short skirt or getting in and out of cars. Keep your legs together in mock innocence.

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The subliminal lift

Tell your lover what you’re wearing or not wearing under your dress and let him subliminally lift your dress.


Source: 302 Advanced Techniques to drive a man wild in bed – Olive St Claire.

 

Split review

This past weekend we went to see Split. I have been waiting for this movie for a while now. I’m a huge fan of James McAvoy and especially like his movies with a psychological undertone. I’ve seen Filth, which was a bit depressing, and absolutely loved Trance.

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This review contains spoilers.

The movie is about a man named Kevin Wendell Crumb. As a child he had an abusive mother and this caused the young boy to develop 23 distinct personalities. In the movie we are only introduced to 8 of the 23 personalities. McAvoy does an amazing job in portraying all of these personalities. In the movie there is a scene where, faced with the death of Kevin, all the personalities takes a turn in the “light” within a matter of minutes, each with their own manner of speaking, voice, gestures, reported age and physical features, for example Dennis, a big bulky guy is strong and can carry a girl around like she’s nothing while Hedwig, a 10 year old boy personality can’t even push a door open while the girls push it closed. Here McAvay was just brilliant. Its movies like this that shows just how versatile an actor can be.

I’ve always thought that its amazing that a person could split their personalities, I know that its  because of trauma that this disassociation happens but its still amazing to think that our minds can help protect us by developing different and sometimes stronger personalities.

In Split, Kevin has more docile personalities and then he has what the other personalities call “The Horde” which consists of the more dangerous/volatile personalities that Kevin possesses. These are the personalities that are more bad-ass, so to speak. For example, Dennis is a perfectionist, that came to the fore when Kevin was just 8  years old. Kevin’s mother was abusive but if everything stayed clean then she would punish Kevin less, therefore the perfectionist Dennis was a real saviour in this situation.

Overall the movie focused on how one personality may have a physical illness etc while the others had not, it also refers to a study found in 2015 of a blind women who lost her sight after a traumatic event in her 20’s that suddenly regained her eyesight in 8 out of her 10 personalities. According to the study the women’s brain scans showed that her sight spontaneously recovered. Source www.medicaldaily.com  The movie therefore focused on the assumption that if a personality believes something to be true it could happen. For example Jade, one of Kevin’s personalities, had diabetes while the others did not, even though they all live within one person.

The 24th personality the trailer talks about is called THE BEAST by the others, according to Dennis’s description of THE BEAST, he is much bigger than all the other personalities, he has long fingers that enables him to climb walls like a spider and his skin is impenetrable, he also feeds on young girls…EEEEK. When the Beast finally makes his appearance all these unbelievable characteristics are in fact true.

I really loved the movie although I thought that it dragged on a bit long before reaching the climax.

What did you think of this film?

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The lonely Expat Christmas

When choosing to leave your home country to live in another country, it all sounds really exiting and cool. Truth be told, it is mostly cool and exiting. But then sometimes, its not…

When you leave your home for whatever reason, there will be some unforeseen troubles along the way. Things that will make you miss home. Or sometimes you’ll just need a hug, but there will be no-one to hug you.

One of the things that you need to consider is whether or not you’re willing to give up the precious time that you have with loved ones. One of life’s infinite truths are that we will all die. Its inevitable that someone you know will leave this world, and depending on how long you’re away from home, you might not be there in their final hours of need.

It is a choice that you will have to make before you leave home. You could have spend a few precious moments with that person and you didn’t. But just because you can’t be there in person, make sure that you are there for them in different ways. Remember to call home ever so often. Send Christmas and Birthday gifts. Show them that you care for them even though you’re not there.

One of the things that we have to live with is having no one for Christmas. This year Christmas falls on a Sunday meaning that our Christmas holiday isn’t long enough for us to visit our families. They might put a few minutes aside for us during a Skype call but after that, we’re all alone again, and if they forget to call then you’re whole Christmas is ruined.

This Christmas, remember your loved one in far off distant lands, whether you’re the one away from home, or them. Give them  a call or send them a little card just to say I LOVE & MISS YOU!!!!

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Dependant Personality Style

Many people exhibit dependant traits but those with Dependant personality disorder have and excessive need to be taken care of which result in submissive and clinging behaviours, regardless of the consequences. They are overly dependent on others to make their decisions for them and are generally unable to make decisions for themselves without advice and reassurance from others (Kaplan et al., 1994).

This fashion style stems from the idea that a person with Dependant Personality Style is a fashion follower. She will know exactly what’s in style this season and what’s not.  She will be reliant on the styles of her friends and on others, will often dress to fit in and follows trends religiously.

Friend style reliant 

Fashion straight from a fashion magazine/blog

Follows trends

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Dress to fit in

When it comes to style we all are dependant from time to time. Adding your own flare to trends makes that style your own.

How dependant is your style?

Read more about other personality related styles here, here and here

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