Create Sexual Energy in and Around Your Home

November 2, 2017October 14, 2017Leave a comment

In ancient times new brides would go through a ceremony readying her body for her new husband. These would include ritual baths and massages. Sex between two people were considered sacred and magical. Nowadays people forget just how divine this act can be.

To bring back the divine nature of sex one could create spaces in your home that will evoke your womanly eroticism.

Ceremonial Spaces

Creating a love or marriage corner in your home will provide a focus for your sensual intention. Every time you pass by it, it will serve as a reminder of your sexual desire and excitement.

Cover a small table or desk with red or purple cloth. Decorate it with scented candles, incense,massage oils and pictures of you and your lover. You could even little sex symbols or statues. For example a statue of Aphrodite or Adonis a Karma Sutra book or sexual amulets from various cultures or countries and some fresh flowers.

Enshrine your bed

Consecrated places create the stage for holy events – Olivia St Claire

Adorn your bed with luxurious fabrics. Use sheer and lacy fabrics in summer and warm furry blankets in winter. Decorate it with velvety, satin or Egyptian cotton pillows that entice the body and the mind. Place candles and fresh flowers on your bed stand and even hang a sexy sheer kimono from the bedpost. Pillows and fluffy rugs also serve as tools for kneeling positions or positions that require leverage.

Romantic Feng Shui

According to the ancient Chinese art of Feng Shui, certain areas in your living space represent certain aspects of your life. Your Love and Marriage corner lies in the right corner of the room as you enter it. This one really works, we had a plant in our house that we had to move during the summer because it wasn’t getting enough light sunlight where it was so my husband moved it into the right corner of our bedroom and ever since he’s done that we’re definitely having more sex…

To achieve Feng Shui in your love an marriage corner remove any clutter from this area and adorn it with pairs of things, plants, candles, love memento’s, quotes about love, fountains, fresh flowers, wind chimes, mirrors and pictures of you and your beloved. But avoid strong water, metal or wood element colours in this area.

Seduction – The Art of Skirt Lifting

September 28, 2017October 14, 20171 Comment

“An ancient gesture of female power, the uncovering of a creamy thigh, plump bottom or dark, mysterious vee has been a staple of seduction for thousands of years” Olivia St Claire.

For centuries women have been using what’s under their clothes to seduce even the most powerful of men. Aphrodite let her drapes fall just enough to expose her plump bottom, similarly Cancan dancers lift their skirts to give their admirers a glimpse of what lithes beneath. In modern days the skirt is still used as a powerful tool of seduction.

The attitude

Remember that men have lost fortunes and empires for what you have underneath your skirt. You’ve got it, they want it. And remember, reveal but conceal!

The skirt

The ideal skirt for skirt lifting is something short and flirty but not something that’s too tight, something wispy that sways when you walk, or long and bellowing that might accidentally reveal some of the secrets hidden underneath. You want something that is flattering and comfortable to avoid looking trampy

Underwear

In order to reveal your holy grail make sure what you have to show is worth seeing. It wouldn’t be alluring if you were wearing grandma panties or your oldest knickers with faded out patterns. Wear something that makes you feel sexy, lace, silk, thigh high stockings with a sexy lace trim or garter or absolutely nothing.

The styles

The hitchhiker

Female hitchhikers around the world has used this to get a ride for ages. Scrunch up your skirt to reveal a thigh, with you toe pointed of course :D.

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The Sharon Stone Cross

In basic instinct Sharon Stone sits with her legs crossed. She uncrosses and crosses her legs to reveal her deep dark cave, if only for a moment.

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The Aphrodite Drop

Aphrodite seduces by slowly drops her drapes from her shoulder to reveal her bottom. Look over your shoulder for to look at your fanny and then at him. Or drop it in one fell swoop.

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The Lolita

Bend over with a short skirt to reveal just enough to still remain a lady.

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The Gypsy

Raise a full long skirt high up both your thighs but leave the middle part draping down. Point one toe, cock your hip and look sultry.

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The Monroe Butterfly

Marilyn Monroe stands feet astride on top of a subway grating letting the wind blow up her skirt. Wait for a strong breeze or twirl around to create a similar effect. Remember to look innocent while doing this

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The accidental flash

This one usually happens whether we intend it or not. Most often when sitting down while wearing a short skirt or getting in and out of cars. Keep your legs together in mock innocence.

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The subliminal lift

Tell your lover what you’re wearing or not wearing under your dress and let him subliminally lift your dress.

Source: 302 Advanced Techniques to drive a man wild in bed – Olive St Claire.

302 Advanced Techniques for Driving a Man Wild in Bed by Olivia St. Claire – Book review

September 15, 2017September 15, 2017Leave a comment

This is one of my all time favourite books. I bought my first copy in 2004 after I left school (and I’m still using it 13 years later). My high school sex experiences consisted of missionary and more missionary with the occasional doggy style. I thought that the best way to spice it up a bit would be to buy a book from an “EXPERT”.

SO there I was in the bookstore trying to find a book that seemed interesting and without too many pictures at the front in case someone saw the outside cover. And then I saw it….what more can you ask for than 302 advanced techniques.

I consider this one of the best books I’ve read because of the first few chapters. Before you even get to all the advanced techniques they have a section on Passion triggers and the art of seduction. Truth be told. If you cannot feel sexy on the inside, how do you expect others to find you sexy. Passion triggers are those things that reminds you of something that made you feel sensual and lusty.

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Black and White Wedding/Ball ideas

October 19, 2016October 21, 2016Leave a comment

Flowers

Black flowers aren’t the easiest thing to find. There are basically 3 types of black flowers you could use and their more purple than black. Arum lilies are in season mostly in December, Dark purple tulips are only in season during spring but you could possible import them at a very high price. The third option is black roses or black morning glories, but it’s more like a dark red than a black

Bridal bouquet.

Instead of using black flowers you always have the option of adding black ribbons, organza and feathers.

Table arrangements

Predominantly White

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Predominantly Black

Stripes

Decor

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Some more flower ideas

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The cake

The Dress

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The wedding party

Blue and Green Wedding ideas

October 12, 2016October 8, 2016Leave a comment

The bouquet

The bouquet is always an important decision when it comes to wedding flowers. It is the brides main accessory. She can also add color to her traditional white or cream dress by having a colorful bouquet. Popular blue flowers include delphiniums and hydrangeas. You can get these in light and dark blues. Another option is the iris although it is more purple than blue. There are many other blue flowers to choose from but many of them will wilt within a few hours.

Entrance hall/Outside

High arrangement of delphiniums create an amazing effect. You can also add greens and other white flowers to make the blue pop. If you can’t find blue flowers during your wedding season then you could also add the color with ribbons, organza, feathers, colored vases or even colored water in the vase.

Reception

You have 2 options with the decor for a blue and green wedding. The first would be to do everything in white and only have a few colorful pieces. This will give it a simple but elegant effect. Secondly you could opt for one of the 2 colors and use the other color here and there to break the main color. Both these options are equally gorgeous depending on your own preference.

Cakes

For many years now, the traditional wedding cake has changed from traditional fruitcake to cupcakes or even macrons.Nowadays you even have the option of doing various colors inside your cake as well as choose different flavored icing.

Bridesmaids dresses

Here are some great ideas for different color bridesmaids dresses. Whether you choose emerald green or a baby blue, its all up to you. Its your special day after all.

The Wedding dress

Instead of the traditional white or cream wedding dress, designers like Vera Wang and Elie Saab have given us some beautiful light colored wedding dresses that make you look like a true princess at your fairy tale wedding.