Seduction – What Is Your Brand of Charismatic Smolder?

What makes a woman irresistible? What made the the insecure small-town girl, Marilyn Monroe-the sex symbol of our time, so irresistible? Or the not all that gorgeous Cleopatra, conqueror of mighty men, so compelling.

It was their own special brand of overpowering charisma that made them so alluring to men. Every women have their own personal brand of alluring charisma embroidered in their mental and physical beings.. Find out which of these most closely resembles your own and magnify it. For fun you could also try out other brands of charisma add some playful fun to your own feminine powers. So lets find out…

What’s is Your Brand of Charismatic Smolder?

Kittenish

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With this style you can focus on your soft pouty lips and touchable skin. Wear pastel shades of pink, peach and beige. Read lots of romance novels and lower your head in a shy Princess Di way as you whisper to your man. Cultivate your modest but yearn to be ravished look.

Exotic

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Dramatize your already vivid features. Wear bright, bold colors and jangling jewelry. Read the Kama Sutra and surprise your man with a Tantric massage. Take rituals baths. Light musky candles and wear musky perfume. Sway your hips like a belly dancer and spread your spicy intensity through life.

Elegant

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Exuding refinement and a sense of rich luxury offer up your long elegant neck to your lovers kiss. Wear classic ensembles and simple hairstyles. Prance around in flowing lingerie. Admire classic Georgia O’Keeffe paintings. Glide your fingers over his skin and send him to sensual heaven.

Sporty

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Flaunt your athletic body and sinewy muscles. Wear sporty leggings, perfectly fitted jeans or sexy tops that accentuate your athleticism. Be a sexual athlete in bed and ignite your erotic imagination. Make him laugh and challenge him to a game of strip billiards. Radiate vibrant health an irresistible joy of life.

Fiery

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Accentuate your eyes which burns with an internal flame. Wear slinky outfits and bold jewelry. Shake your hips or join a salsa club. Growl, pant and claw like a tigress in the bedroom. “Be so passionate about life that your inner fire sends sparks across any room”

Smart

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Don’t be afraid to let intelligence and depth shine through your eyes. Dress with taste and style and the occasional item that has an interesting story behind it. Develop a vast vocabulary of steamy language. Introduce your man to a sensual piece of art or music and tell him something fascinating about himself. Project a sense of mystery, depth and worldliness.

Earthy

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Play up your voluptuous figure and womanly walk. Wear a low cut gown with heels or go barefoot. Lick food from your fingers and let wine drizzle down your chin into your cleavage. Give your man plenty of smoldering glances and husky-voiced promises. Tease him with your hot touch. Be shamelessly lusty

Wild Woman

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Wield your outrageousness like an electrifying weapon. Wear leather, over the top frills, garter belts and wild hairdos. Make erotic videos, and randy overtures in semi public places. Promise to tie hi up and bite his ear playfully. Ooze unpredictable edginess and a sense of delicious danger.

 

Resources

302 Advanced Techniques for driving a man wild in bed by Olivia St. Claire

Create Sexual Energy in and Around Your Home

In ancient times new brides would go through a ceremony readying her body for her new husband. These would include ritual baths and massages. Sex between two people were considered sacred and magical. Nowadays people forget just how divine this act can be.

To bring back the divine nature of sex one could create spaces in your home that will evoke your womanly  eroticism.

Ceremonial Spaces

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Creating a love or marriage corner in your home will provide a focus for your sensual intention. Every time you pass by it, it will serve as a reminder of your sexual desire and excitement.

Cover a small table or desk with red or purple cloth. Decorate it with scented candles, incense,massage oils and pictures of you and your lover. You could even little sex symbols or statues. For example a statue of Aphrodite or Adonis a Karma Sutra book or sexual amulets from various cultures or countries and some fresh flowers.

Enshrine your bed

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Consecrated places create the stage for holy events – Olivia St Claire

Adorn your bed with luxurious fabrics. Use sheer and lacy fabrics in summer and warm furry blankets in winter. Decorate it with velvety, satin or Egyptian cotton pillows that entice the body and the mind. Place candles and fresh flowers on your bed stand and even hang a sexy sheer kimono from the bedpost. Pillows and fluffy rugs also serve as tools for kneeling positions or positions that require leverage.

Romantic Feng Shui

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According to the ancient Chinese art of Feng Shui, certain areas in your living space represent certain aspects of your life. Your Love and Marriage corner lies in the right corner of the room as you enter it. This one really works, we had a plant in our house that we had to move during the summer because it wasn’t getting enough light sunlight where it was so my husband moved it into the right corner of our bedroom and ever since he’s done that we’re definitely having more sex…

To achieve Feng Shui in your love an marriage corner remove any clutter from this area and adorn it with pairs of things, plants, candles, love memento’s, quotes about love, fountains, fresh flowers, wind chimes, mirrors and pictures of you and your beloved. But avoid strong water, metal or wood element colours in this area.

Which Sex and the City girl are you?

Are you the duty before self Charlotte? The literal and intellectual Carrie? The fiery loner Miranda? Or the nothing to lose Samantha?

Everyone has a favourite Sex and the City girl. Your favourite girl is a reflection of who you are. Even if you have more than one favourite it represents a balance between the four personalities.

According to proto-psychological theory there are four fundamental personality types; Sanguine (optimistic and social),  Choleric (short tempered and irritable), Melancholic (analytical and quiet) and Phlegmatic (relaxed and peaceful) Hippocrates classified these personalities according to the four elements, earth, wind, fire and water.He stated that there could also be a balance between the 4 personalities yielding a total of 9 personalities (wikipedia)

Lets get to the point then…which Sex and the city girl are you?

Miranda

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Miranda is sanguine. According to the Sanguine personality type your qualities include; sociable, outgoing, talkative, responsive, easygoing, lively, carefree and leadership. If you are Miranda, you are warm-hearted, optimistic and creative. The things you enjoy doing the most are the things you love.

Miranda style always showed that she wasn’t afraid of a challenge. Her style was effortlessly sexy. Her LBD didn’t show too much skin showing that she didn’t need feminine charm to get a man. She often drank whiskey on the rocks to show that she has the balls for a challenge. Her adventurous side was illustrated by her statement jewelry choices. She practically lived in her lounge wear when she was at home, and her lingerie style was more comfort than glam. She often wore lingerie that were functional as it’s coming off in any way.

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Samantha

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Samantha is Choleric. Accordingly your personality qualities include; touchy, aggressive, restless, excitable, changeable, impulsive, optimistic and active. If you are Samantha, you are task orientated and prefer to get things done immediately. You  are strong willed and like to be in charge. You like planning and you are practical and solution orientated.

Samantha’s style is lust driven. She is strong and driven and not afraid to mix business with pleasure. Her LBD’s whole existence is there so that men can be inspired to take it off. Her lingerie choices would include lacy corsets that doesn’t take much skill to remove.

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Carrie

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Carrie is Phlegmatic. If you are Carrie your qualities include: passive, careful, thoughtful, peaceful, controlled, reliable, even tempered and calm. You are patient, caring and tolerant. You have a rich peaceful inner self. You seek peaceful environments and atmospheres. You are steadfast and consistent and therefore you make a good friend.

Carries style is adventurous and flirty. She likes to mix vintage items with high fashion items. Her style is fresh and girly. In modern day it might even be a little bohemian at times.  Her lingerie choices would include very cute bra and a thong, something a little more edgy

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Charlotte

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Charlotte is Melancholic. According to this personality type, your qualities are; reserved, quiet, sober, anxious, moody, rigid, pessimistic and unsociable. You prefer to do things yourself. You are often concerned about the cruelty of the world and is easily susceptible to depression and moodiness. You are focused and conscientious and have great sympathy for the world.

Charlotte’s style is feminine and classy. She loves outfits that make her look like a girl. Her outfits almost always include floral prints, lace or silk. She prefers to look classy and would not experiment with outrageous fashions. Her underwear would include very cute bra and pantie sets

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Although these personality types are all different, one could argue that they fulfill each other. Just like you often get introverts and extroverts being drawn to each other in an effort to compliment the other by compensating for their social deficits. Each personality type is there to enhance and enrich the other, whatever your personality type.

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The rock my life is built on.

The death of my aunt and mother a few years ago had a massive impact on my life. My mother was diagnosed with a brain tumour. It wasn’t going very well with her. She has already had 2 major brain surgeries to remove the tumour but it has come back for the third time. My mother was very confused about her surroundings and then all of a sudden her youngest sister , my aunt, died. My aunt was only 34 years old when she died. I spoke to her on the phone on Thursday and by the next Tuesday she had collapsed at work and was unable to open her eyes. She died 20 days later of a brain aneurysm. This was one of the hardest times in my life. Its easier when you know someone is going to die, rather than losing them suddenly. I remember that my mother was so confused at my aunts funeral that she asked my dad “Why are they throwing sand on my sister?” She realised but also didn’t realise  what the situation was. My mother died two years later at the age of a mere 50.

What happened to them made me decide that I wanted to live a healthy life. They both died really young and I didn’t want to die at a young age.

Through all this sadness I had one person who really stood by me, he laughed when I laughed and cried when I cried. He helped me make and achieve goals when I felt that I never wanted to love anyone again. Sometimes I was so sad that life had no meaning but he showed me the meaning of my life, he made me want to live again. He is my husband.

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